Today is Glutinous Rice Ball festival. (i guess is spelled like that.)
well, anyway. is a chinese tradition that every family is gna make /buy glutinous rice ball and eat together with their family.
is a happy occasion for everybody. but for my family, is not.

this few days my dad & mom has been quarrelling over some issues.
and is has been like this for 2 days.

> raising their voice at each other.
> telling their sisters/brothers abt the current situation.
> asking them who is right & who is wrong.
of course , they will say themselves that they are right.

asking me to be the judge ? i guess , dad , mom.
i'm really really sorry that i can't be the judge.

seriously, i think both parties are right. what i mean is, daddy and mommy always work hard to let us which is me ,my bro & my granny to have a comfortable life. enroll both my bro and i for tution classes to improve our studies.
help us plan for our future.and also enroll us for some activites like, swimming/dancing etc. so that we have some talent.
as for granny, giving her allowance every month on time so that she get to shop.

i knw both of you care for this family.
of course, you have your own ways to manage this family.
but the ways that both of you are using is totally DIFFERENT.& yeah. mom, you're not please with dad. & dad, you are not please with mom either.

stating the facts, i don't really agree with dad ways. but if its really that bad. im gna support you, daddy (:
as for mom. i knw you work UTRA hard . and yeah, i will support you too :D
& okay. Now, im in my room , closing the door. blasting the music.

while blogging,
a word ' divorce' actually came out from both of your mouth.
i really can't believe it.
i don't mind if a word ' divorce ' can make both parties happy or have a muchmuch more comfortable life/ less stressed & more freedom,
i will really support this decision. i really don't mind .
- i can live without my dad.
perhaps my brother can't.somemore he's only a 7 years old kid. and he really really need my dad.( plus my mom )

anyway, all i can say is. you two are the decision maker. & please think before you speak. hope everything will be back to normal.

and guys,
have a nice day :D
Love pam.